Whole-Process Counseling Mode

Consultation Promise: whole-process consultaion until clients’ social and psychological competence recover to a regular level. We will not collect any other fees again until clients feel satisfied with his recovery. This period usually takes more than a half year to 2 years. (after build the counseling relationship, corporation and our psychotherapist will give the promise of service and seal.)

We will try our best to treat clients. We have enough confidence to face the problems given by you. As you believe in our counseling method, we will build the long-term relationship between us.

Consultaion Scope:

1. Obsessive-Compulsive Disoder, the common clinical symptoms: distracting thoughts phobia, graphospasm, homophobia, sharp instrument phobia, immoral phobia, fear, misophobia, vertigo phobia, body odour phobia, suspicion phobia, hoodoo phobia, stutter phobia, nosophobia, noise phobia, traffic accident phobia, read and cheak phobia, hypsiphobia, special number sensitive, etc.

2. Social Phobia, the common clinical symptoms: human phobia, eyes contact phobia, shyness, ?fear of blushing, heterophobia, speech phobia, stutter phobia, party phobia, photophobia, airtight space phobia, agoraphobia, etc.

3. Anxiety Disorder, the common clinical symptoms: apoplectic stroke phobia, palpitation hyperfunctional phobia, dyspnea phobia, blood pressure elevation stress, keep worried about a small thing, disastrous thinking association, etc.

4. Phobia, the common clinical symptoms: social phobia, airtight space phobia, object phobia, love phobia, sexual intercourse phobia, agoraphobia, thanatophobia, HIV phobia, hydrophobia, etc.

5. Insomnia, the common clinical symptoms: have difficulty on fall asleep/keeping sleep, too much sleep at daytime, choose wrong time to sleep, easy to wake up, abnormal of sleep rhythm, wake up early, cannot fall asleep within several hours, abnormal thing happened in sleep such as somnambulate, etc.

Payment: US$ 8500 per person

How to consult? The way shows below:

Client usually can choose 3 ways to receive treatment: face-to-face counseling, telephone counseling and MSN voice counseling! You don’t have to come but use telephone and MSN voice to receive the treatment! Mr. Heixi does not use instruments or medicines. He think the important part is find the correct way! Clients can still live under the usual way. He encourage client to receive treatment and consultation under normal situation! The mean point is to use the experienced integrated therapy from east and west psychology. Psychotherapists will tell clients how to use the correct and proper way to solve problems in time. They will lead clients to solve all the troubles at last!

Face-to-face counseling is that psychotherapists use the language to tell clients how to do. Psychotherapists cannot solve problems on behalf of the clients. Use of the telephone counseling have no difference with face-to-face counseling. From our previous experience, both of them show the same result. Our practise shows: ecdemic clients talk to our psychotherapists by telephone and get treatment. Psychotherapists can give them advises at a proper time. clients can recover without meet our psychotherapists. Expect for some special case, most of the clients can receive treatment by phone. You don't have to come over Shanghai and get consultation.

No matter autochthonic or ecdemic clients, they have already use this kind of more effective and efficient way. Of course, if clients require a face-to-face consultaion, we can also make it! however, the practise shows the difference is really small. Please don't worry about it.

The frequency of consultation at first may be higher. Except for telephone communication, we still need fixed time MSN voice counseling through Internet. (this way may help clients to save many communication fees) The consultation time in China is every wednesday and Saturday evening from 7pm to 10pm. (clients from overseas may choose a more convenient time after our discussion) During 2 years, Mr. Heixi and other psychotherapists in our organisation will share their recover experience and give clients one-to-one interactive communication time. We execute 5 study processes: elementary understanding, repeat study, use the study to apply, digest and reinforce again. From 3 months to 6 months to 1year, we believe clients will eliminate symptoms and achieve a real harmonious and relax grow.

Once we build the counseling relationship, we will share all the free intramural records by Mr. Heixi and several recovered clients with you. (these records was not published before, they show the experience by many recovered clients that helped by us)

Nobody can tell others the thing that he doesn't know. As you listen to those an experienced person, you will not think you are so special and different. You won’t lose the confidence of recovery.

Our purpose:

Our purpose is not only on solve the current problems of clients, but also support their growing process. Let them solve the current and future problems better, and solve them by themselves. This process can be go through by a good relationship between us. It is a process of help clients find themselves, seek after themselves and rebuild themselves. During the process, client will be changed in several parts:

1. Clients will become more open: clients will accept his experience, feeling, instinct more unperturbed. He won’t distort, deny or make his choice depend on value conditioning. Therefore, his feeling will be more enriched, more changeable, and more relaxed. He can accpt others and the world easier. The world in his eyes will be more flexible.

1. Clients will be more confident: as he eliminate the value conditioning, he won’t validate himself depend on others’ evaluation. He won’t live in others’ world. He trust himself. He make decisions and choices independently. Once he build confidence based on himself, he will live base on a more active way.

1. Clients will be more adaptive: he can adapt his experience freely and others’ experience openly. His interior and exterior will be united. He will be more used to his life.

The opinions above is the result of treatment and our purpose of treatment also. The essential purpose is to speed up personal grow. Let clients to be self-fulfilled persons. This therapy is the combination of many kinds of therapys. It can help clients eliminate symptoms, increase adapt ability and build a constructive living attitude.

Expected result:

This therapy is not only the theories from books. It is a result of 10 years personal experience and practise by Mr. Heixi. He has adopted many psychoanalysts’ ideas and combine them with his own opinions and experience. he come out an original therapy to help many friends with the similar problems. In order to ensure a perfect result, never give up the “whole-process” that has been proved is the most important require. The maximal purpose for whole-process counseling is keep on collect feedback and adjust, and Lead you to a correct way. It can solve problems perpetually. During long-distance accompany with you and consultation by recovered people, it will help you avoid inferiority and dependency. Hence, clients will build a good psychological quality and strong self-confidence. Personal ability will be increased rapidly. We try to help clients to get ride of pathogenic factors and make sure every client can eliminate sympotms around 90%. We try to ensure symptoms won’t recurrence again and let clients to face their future actively.

Every life experience has a positive meaning. We can grow better because of it! God bless you. Avoid difficulties earler and enjoy your life!

At the same time, we think most of friends cannot get rid of OCD, social phobia, anxiety, etc is because of: pertinacity, psychological illusion, pzzle, repulse symptoms, exculpation, etc.

The effect of “coach” during the process of therapy:

1. show the correct way during the process. Many friends get many phobia because of the indeterminable way. They are not sure whether the way is correct or not. From the speech of experienced people, they can get confirmation. Indetermination can cause many fear.

1. eliminate negative emotion caused by symptoms in time and avoid continued impact on social ability.

1. “coach” represent the practise what he preach, body language, express of confidence and exert a subtle influence on clients to keep a correct faith. Whole-process instruct strategies of symptoms, keep calm and avoid vicious circle.

1. keep on adjust and collect feedback until the change from quantitative to qualitative. The new behavior mode will be confirmed perpetually after iterative consolidation. All the recoveries are similar to hiccup. As we hiccup, we believe it will disappear automatically. We think hiccup is very common. Symptoms of OCD is also the same thing.

Attention: our mean counseling area is focusd on neurosis, also called clinical psychological conflict. It is a psychological obstacle that cause serious effect on psycholocial and social function, such as OCD, anxiety, social phobia, etc.

Some of our clients forgot the real purpose and motivation of life. They thought they can only live better in work or study after they recover. Actually, we only need to be thankful in life, enthusiastic in living and devote to work and love. By doing that, symptoms will be transferred and personality will be improved naturally. Even though there is frustration and painfulness, they are still significative. This is only one part of life. Everyone should face it.

Sometime people know what to do and decide to do it. symptoms will disturb you stiffly and always repeat. Therefore, some people lose confidence. Their symptoms and personality conflict again. The most important thing here is willpower and tenacity. We should believe our direction of effort. This is the only way to recover.

FAQ

Q: When was Heixi Psychological Counseling Center founded?
A: Heixi Psychological Center was founded in the end of 2003 and ratified by Shanghai Industrial & Commercial Bureau.

Q: Why does Mr. Heixi want to take psychological counseling as his lifetime career?
A: The very reason that I want to take psychological counseling as my lifetime career is that I myself had suffered from all sorts of mental suffering such as Social Phobia, OCD, Anxiety and so on. For more than 10 years, in order to free myself from the mental torment, I had visited almost all the professional psychotherapy organizations throughout my country, and tried almost all the therapies, either from west or east, available. Finally, after 10 years life in purgatory, I completely recovered. When I completely recovered, I realized there are still millions of people tortured by all kinds of neurosis in this world, I simply wish I can set them free with efforts and my recovery experience.

Q: Do all the neurosis fall into the scope of your therapy?
A: My therapy applies to almost all the neurosis, in my view, although they have different types of symptom such phobia, anxiety or depression, their essence is the same, namely low self-esteem or self-denial.

Q: Why do you apply Whole-Process Counseling mode (WPC)
A: The Whole-Process Counseling mode is designed according to my own recovery experience and my counseling practice for the past years. Frankly speaking, neurosis is quite stubborn and very difficult to treat. My own recovery experience and counseling practice tells me, short-term treatment can hardly bring complete recovery to those sufferers. As a psychotherapist, no matter how competent he or she is, if he or she doesn’t contribute long time and painstaking efforts focused on one or two persons carefully, patiently and repeatedly to counsel them, listen to their feedback and adjust their behaviors and thoughts, complete recovery is very difficult. Just because I have seen with my own eyes that too many short-term counseling has been give up halfway, I determined to apply Whole-Process Counseling (WPC) only and meanwhile abandon all the other short-term counseling modes.

Q: How many persons do you accept as your clients per year? Can you guarantee every person to completely recover?
A: To tell the truth, in order to guarantee every one of my clients complete recovery, I can only focus my limited time and efforts on limited number of persons. Every year, I can only accept around 30 persons as my clients. Only in this way, I can guarantee all of my clients to completely recover. Our principle is “guarantee every client to be satisfied with the result”, so the number of persons we accept as our clients every year is customized or modified according this principle.

Q: US$ 8500 is not a small sum of money, but if we can completely recover by paying this sum of money, we think it is worth it, but how can you prove the curative effect.
A: I believe this question is what most of the visitors in my counseling center will ask. I am not magician and I am not able to use magic to make every one mysteriously recover. Some of my clients say that the curative effect is quite amazing. It is very simple, because I have made painstaking effort to treat every one of them, patiently and carefully guide them according to their respective personal state. In terms of “How we prove the curative effects”, I think I can only prove that by fact and result. My colleagues and I will try our best to make every client completely recover in one or two years. The fact and result is the best proof. We have been running this counseling center for 4 years. If we failed to carry out our promise, we would not survive in the psychological market which is full of competition until today.

Q: Is there a time limitation? What if you failed to carry out your promise within the time limitation
A: We promise our service time is one year. According to many sufferers, I think my therapy can guarantee them to completely recover in one year. But if you are not satisfied with the curative effect after 1 year and want to make further progress, our counseling team will still serve you until you are satisfied, and there will be no extra payment. Actually, we can say that there is no time limitation until your complete recovery.

Q: What is the average time for every client to completely recover
A: It depends on many factors such as the severity of the suffering, your personal comprehension capability, the environment you are living and the respective symptoms. According to my past counseling experience, the average time is from 6 months to 9 months, some people can recover very soon. The soonest case is 26 days and the longest one is two and a half years.

Q: How many persons have recovered under your guidance totally？How about their current situations？
A: For past several years, I have helped about 60 people completely recover. Whatever mental suffering they have experienced, whether it is Social phobia, OCD or Anxiety, Depression, when they completely recovered, there is no difference between them and the other normal people. Many of them even don’t feel interested in talking about any psychological topics because there is no reason for them to do so, their life is full of interesting things. So many things are really worth to do. They will gradually forget their nightmare in the past, even forget me. I think that is a positive phenomenon.

Q: For some foreign help-seekers, how would you counsel them?
A: I have also counseled some foreign sufferers. All of them have never seen me face to face during the Whole-Process Counseling. We just talked through phone or MSN. They have also completely recovered. In my view, type of counseling is not important. I have said many times that I only care about 2 things.

1: Whether my client can practice the technique and method I told them.
2. Whether they can finally completely recover.

With these 2 principles as the prerequisites, I think whatever counseling type we apply, whether through mail, phone, face-to-face counseling or MSN Voice counseling, is not important as long as we can meet the 2 requirements. According to the experience gained from counseling, the content of phone counseling and face-to-face counseling are almost the same. What we tell our clients is how they should practice our technique, how to deal with concrete problem, how to finish our homework and give us the feedback. Then we correct their mistakes in practicing step by step according to their feedback. The result shows the face-to-face counseling and Phone or MSN voice counseling have the same effect.

Q: Have you start to train any new psychotherapists? How many psychotherapists will you have in the future?
A: I have start to train new psychotherapists for 1 to 2 years. Most of them were chose from my previous client. I trained them to be psychotherapists in the future. I decide to train around 200 psychotherapists in the following 10 years. I hope they can work all around the world and spread my therapy and my more than 10 years experience. This may help many friends who still troubled by neurosis all over the world.

Q: Why not apply a common counseling mode ( one counseling session, one payment )
A: The counseling mode I am using now is “once paid, there is no time limitation until complete recovery”, means you can call me or visit me at any appointed time. For the first one or two session, I will listen to your story and customize a therapy system for you to practice. Then you can give me feedback or tell me any problem or difficulty you have encountered during the practice any time, and I will instruct you with guidance and correct your mistakes. After that, you continue to practice and tell me feedback or problems. I will correct your mistake and give you guidance once again. By continual practice---feedback---instruction cycle, finally you will get completely recovered and don’t need any counseling. You can live depend on yourself freely. What I mentioned above is a general and simple description of the process. I would usually modify the therapy system according the actual situation of my client to help him or her to overstride any barrier on the way to recovery. I used to try many counseling mode including the one you mentioned above. However, to be frank, inveterate mental disorders are not formed accidentally. Every sufferer should date back to the childhood. The negative environment we were living with in our childhood rendered us such negative personality “timid, dependent, sensitive, weak……”. It is the main factor that caused our various mental disorders . We dare to say “ how many years you lived, how many years you suffered.” Various mental disorders or Neurosis is only an outburst or extreme expression of your accumulated suffering. Therefore, if you want to recover completely, you personality should be reformed, the ways of your thinking should be corrected. One or two counseling session is far from enough for this purpose. there are Chinese old saying:” Personality Reformation is even difficult than Mountain-budging”. Therefore, if we really want to help one sufferer to completely recover, a long and systematical reformation is a must rather than a short and temporary counseling. The therapist should devote all of his attention and efforts to one or two persons in a certain period of time to guarantee the effect. It is a very exhausting and arduous job. The feature of our therapy is “Whole process” which is “from beginning to end”. It is like a sailor and a boat. We are the sailor and will be responsible for taking you to the harbor and anchor you, and then you will never drift again even come back to where you were. If we, sailors, abandon the boat half way, surely it will be driven by wind or tides to its starting point and even to nowhere. We have tried the most common counseling mode (one counseling session, one payment). The effect was not satisfactory at all, mainly because that our clients couldn’t persevere. They had a conscious or unconscious worry about payment every time or they didn’t realize that all the mental disorder are like a kind with bad habit. They would haunt us again when we think they are completely gone (recurring). Only when we pluck the root, they will die. He might think, “ well, I have made some progress, do I have to pay for another counseling? Maybe I can depend on myself now” or “I have already tried one or two times, but it doesn’t seem good, maybe Heixi is lying”. Many clients were just like the boat abandoned by the sailor half way. The difference was they give up themselves not I abandoned them. Even worse, they might tell others, “ I have already visited Heixi, but he cannot cure my mental disorders.” All in all, such mode was not doing well to both the clients who believe in me and me myself. It may bring me money more easily in the short run, but in the long run, I will never realize my dream of saving all the souls in purgatory in this world. I decided either I don’t do it at all or I do it better, namely either I don’t have any client or I must make every client of mine completely recovered! So I apply this new counseling mode. Maybe it will arouse doubts even criticism at first, but I believe curative effect is the most strong evidence.

Q: The payment is so high!
A: Some friends think the cost is too high to be accepted. I think whether the cost is acceptable depends on what kind of service you receive. If such cost is for a series of pure counseling session which may make you feel temporarily comfortable and you will come back to the therapist again, or the therapist doesn’t have the confidence to guarantee your complete recovery, the cost of $8500 is so high and irrational. However, if you exchange $8500 for a complete recovery, it is really cheap. To me, complete recovery doesn’t only mean a change of state, it means a lot of things. It means you can escape from your past and start your new life, you can pursue the job you like freely, you can communicate with persons and make public speaking freely, you will free yourself from depression and feel that the breeze is really fresh and the sun is really shining. Those recurring and unwanted thoughts will never haunt you and you can focus on what you need to do. You can pursue your career you used to dreamed of and earn back a couple of $8500. You can enjoy the life freely! suffice it to say “ the feeling of freedom is good! After you change, your world will also change. Exchange $8500 for a complete new life and new yourself, do you think it is rational? If you consider this payment a investment, what you will gain is a completely new life. One more question: What do we live for? To enjoy the life! If you are unable to taste the interest of living, even if you are as rich as Bill Gates, your wealth doesn’t mean anything to you. A client once told me just because he was haunted by depression and SA, he quit the job which was very decent. Another client also complained that his girl friend left him and so many friends disliked him because of his weird OCD and Phobias symptoms. More friends told me they cannot live? freely because of all kinds of Phobias. What we have already lost cannot be measured by the amount of money. We cannot lose more! Why you rather bury your true capability and gift in your heart for your whole life than unleash them through some guidance.
Besides this factor, I don’t work as a single person. There is the Chinese largest psychological counseling center located in Shanghai, China behind me. The cost is so high to run and develop such a large organization. In such a modern and market-oriented society, such a large organization would not exist if it cannot afford such high cost. Without paying, no one will work for us, no one will rent the place which is big enough for us, no media will communicate with us. All in all, no one will provide everything we need to exist. Without existing in this society, how can we develop and dream of saving all tortured souls in this world? Let’s set aside those big words, only the efforts and painstaking care by one professional therapist concentrates on one or two clients during whole process (usually from 3 months to 1 year, but it depends, because we should guarantee you get complete recovery) is a big amount. In order to help the person to completely recover is far more valuable than the money itself. Please remember, we promise you will never need any drugs and therapist when you get complete recovered here. Only because all the mental disorders cannot be cured by one or two session, like I mentioned above, we apply this new mode to help every one who comes to us to completely solve the problem once and for all.
By saying so much, we don’t mean that all the sufferers all over the world should come to us, because currently we can only help a limited number of persons. But according to my own experience in suffering those mental disorders and finally completely free my myself from it, inveterate disorders cannot be cured by one or two counseling session or any drugs. You should strongly determine to seek a professional and experienced therapist as quickly as possible. The earlier you recover, the better! We have no time to waste.
You can depend on yourself by spending more than 10 years, trying various methods whether it is necessary or not, and work out a therapy system which can enable you to complete recover.
You can also find a man who has already done this, and learn from him this therapy system and get complete recovered in almost half a year.
Your destiny is in your hands!

Q: What are the most important character should a psychopath have? What do you want to tell them?
A: The most important character are the positive spirit, active motivity, love of their life, and have the willpower of never give up until the end. God will help you as you decide to help yourself. We cannot give up ourselves. Action and prectice are also the important character. I’d like to tell all the psychopaths from my heart: neurosis is not a incurable disease. I believe all the psychopaths can recover. No matter where you treat it or treat it by yourselves. As long as you don't give up yourselves, you will be fine in one day. This is the experience of me for more than ten years’ despairation.

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